I think the best first world gift there is to have is someone who listens. It is so horrible to want so much to be heard, but for no ears to open to you. If there is someone who turns and listens when you speak, not because you ask them to, but because they want to, then you are goddamn blessed. Just to have someone who wants to understand, even if they never do. Isn’t that wonderful? You never really know how valuable that is until you have been without it.